Why most don’t build their own home

Courage is the power to let go of the familiar…

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As we continue building our new solar home from scratch up in the foothills west of here, it often occurs to me why most don’t put themselves through this process ever in a lifetime.

And I discovered only recently, the reasons why others might not want to build their own home can be the same reasons why we wanted to.

The most obvious one is the constant decision-making! Since I’ve never done this before, I hadn’t thought so far as to realize we would need to chose every single detail of both the outside structure and the inside finishes.

How lucky am I to have a recent subscription to HGTV!

IMGP3227Many would not like this process, but that is also the best reason to build your own solar home. From choosing the exact angle the house faces and the thickness of your slab, to window choices, flooring and the type of supplemental heating, these are the factors that determine the comfort and future price of operating your home. If you don’t control these factors, passive solar will not work.

IMGP3241Then if you feel the need to raise the fire-resistant level of your home, even more factors arise. It sometimes boggles my mind! Luckily Mike has quite a bit of experience in building from scratch plus amazing research skills!

Still and all the expenses just keep going up and that can freak a person out at times. It is certainly much more expensive than your home in the suburbs, not to mention the inconvenience of moving into a rental for eight to ten months while the construction is going on…

IMGP3234What makes it all worthwhile?  Views like these from every room in the house!

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Midlife Crisis Still in Progress!

Since we’re waiting for some more progress on our new home after another snow storm, I thought you might enjoy reading my thoughts from last year at this time:

There’s nothing like a crisis to define who you are.  Like the way my own midlife crisis showed me the way to a brand new life, one where I made better personal choices.

Now a new crisis is turning our lives upside down… but in a good way.

Mike’s disability has made it clear that he cannot work 40 hours a week any longer.  So we have decided to move to the place where we would prefer to live, in the kind of setting where we always pictured ourselves.

IMGP3099This week we made our first major commitment to our new future by purchasing three acres at the top of the foothills.  (See the view above from our new land.)  We also began discussions with builders… our dream begins to come alive.

IMGP3206I’m starting to be able to imagine how awesome (a word I seldom use!) it will be to live in our new solar home down in southern Colorado, and the freedom this alternative lifestyle will offer us.  It almost makes all of the hard work we will have to do between now and then worthwhile.

I have been thinking a lot lately about all of the reasons why some decide to stay in place at retirement, while others move someplace else.  It strikes me that moving is not for the weak of body or spirit. You need to start early with a strong desire for an alternative lifestyle.

Laura and Mike Wedding Day 2005Mike and I have always wanted to get out of the suburbs.  When I first met Mike nine years ago, he said he would not move again unless he could get a great view out of the deal.  Well, I guess we will have that soon, plus a much more environmentally-friendly, relaxed rural lifestyle.

Every time we go south now, it becomes more difficult to return to our home up north.  I guess that’s a positive sign!

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GREAT NEWS!

IMGP3216Our new solar home is progressing nicely now. Our builder said yesterday it might be done by some time in May! The whole house is sealed now. Windows and doors are only a couple weeks away, and they’re starting to build the interior walls!

I celebrate my 60th birthday this April, and I really want a new home for my birthday!

It was so beautiful up there yesterday with the clouds intertwined with the Spanish Peaks, a dream come true…

Aging and Letting Go of STUFF!

I have too much stuffIt seems natural to begin paring down possessions as we get past age 50 or 60. What brings about this growing need for letting things go?  In our case moving helped a whole lot! I learned last spring exactly how exhausting moving can be, both physically and emotionally.

We chose to build a smaller passive solar home for a number of reasons. Cost was a major concern, and parallel to that was a desire to conserve natural resources.

For each of us the question becomes how much personal space is enough? What is just right without over doing it? We have no growing family, and only a small need for guest space.

Find the courage to changeI learned from moving this past year, that getting rid of your stuff can be a positive but gradual process. You get rid of a small amount and then realize that wasn’t so painful, so you take a bit more to the Goodwill. Before you know it you’ve sent a quarter of your stuff away and don’t even miss it. I pictured walking into the local Goodwill and seeing my stuff everywhere!

Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful!

There comes a time when “the stuff” no longer brings joy, but instead weighs you down. Your old stuff can equal old memories that no longer improve your present. It feels like your past is crowding in on you.

You soon learn that when you become truly selective in what you keep and what you gift back to the world, you are only left with the BEST STUFF … Or maybe, like me, you simply get tired of packing boxes and quit!

Decking the roof with lots of sheathing!

IMGP3183This year we’re decking the ROOF instead of the halls!

On an amazingly sunny warm December day down here, we just drove up to find that our roof decking is going up fast! I’m not sure what I was expecting, but it never ceases to amaze me how these guys stand up there and balance while fitting in boards and nailing them in.

IMGP3153Check out this balancing act!

IMGP3185So glad we are having such brilliant December weather this year…

IMGP3188and the views just keep on coming!

DSCF1019The sun will come way inside of our house on the shortest day of the year, passive solar at its BEST!

BTW, I just read that for the realtors down here, 2014 was their best year since 2006. Better get down here if you want to find some good deals left!

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