Where did Valentines Day come from?

Think naked Romans, paganism, and whips…

Way before Hallmark, Valentine’s Day, like Halloween, is rooted in pagan partying. This lovers’ holiday traces its roots to raucous annual Roman festivals where men stripped naked, grabbed goat or dog skin whips, and spanked young maidens in hopes of increasing their fertility, so says classics professor Noel Lenski at University of Colorado, Boulder.

The annual pagan celebration, called Lupercalia, was held every year from February 13th to the 15th, and remained wildly popular well into the fifth century A.D.—at least 150 years after Constantine made Christianity the official religion of the Roman Empire.

Lupercalia was “clearly a very popular thing, even in an environment where the [ancient] Christians are trying to close it down,” Lenski said. “So there’s reason to think that the Christians might instead have said, OK, we’ll just call this a Christian festival.”

The church pegged the festival to the legend of St. Valentine. The story goes that in the third century A.D., Roman Emperor Claudius II, seeking to bolster his army, forbade young men to marry. Valentine, flouted the ban, performing marriages in secret. For his defiance, Valentine was executed in A.D. 270—on February 14.

“In the end
these things matter most:
How well did you love?
How fully did you live?
How deeply did you let go?”
Gautama Buddha

9 thoughts on “Where did Valentines Day come from?

  1. I always love learning a bit of history in a post. It’s amazing how things evolve! Thank you. Fun to find you at Women of Midlife.


  2. Yes, isn’t that history fascinating? We went from Roman slaves to romance and major commercialism in just a few centuries! I like the idea of having a holiday dedicated to LOVE, I just wish it felt more inclusive and less romantic. We all have some kind of love in our lives, let’s celebrate it!


  3. Pingback: Real Love | Adventures of the NEW Old Farts

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