“When I woke up after I was in a coma for three days, I realized that ‘OK, God, the universe, did not see fit for me to, leave here like I wanted to,'” said Nancy Nettles, 50, who tried to overdose with pills.
Ms. Stage feels her project gives people permission to talk about a topic which I have found to be mostly taboo in our world today. As controversy swirls around videos like “13 Reasons Why” available on Netflix, and opioid deaths continue to rise, do we choose to confront this issue publicly, or pretend that if we ignore it, it will certainly go away?
Do we simply not care about Americans who choose to kill themselves? I believe the first step is for all of us who have ever considered suicide to fess up. If everyone of us who have ever felt that miserable and desperate for our lives to get better, would say so, suicide could become a topic to be discussed and awareness would improve dramatically.
I considered suicide a few times, and I am so glad I didn’t do it. I had no idea what I would have missed in this wild experience called life. Suicide is such a permanent solution to a temporary problem. It may seem like the easy way out, but you will miss so much if you are tempted by this ‘easy’ solution.
Looking back over 62 years of life, I would have missed finally finding love at age 49 with the best person I have ever met, and the amazing experience of relating totally to one other human being with no disappointments. I would have missed finally finding ‘home’ in a new part of Colorado with breath-taking views, surrounded by the beauty and silence of nature. I would have missed finally attaining my dream of writing professionally and publishing my own books. I would have missed enjoying my parents in their elder years. In short, I would have missed out on most of my amazing life.
What a waste that would have been. Life is a continuous unfolding… Anything can happen!
2 thoughts on “Three Ways of Confronting Suicide”
After my husband of 30 years died, there were a few times I thought about it, but it never went beyond that. 4 years later, I’ve moved to a new state, home and town I love. I keep busy and have made some new friends. I am fairly content, but since my husband was my soulmate, there won’t be another man in my life at 70. I’m just not interested.
However the one thing that could make me seriously consider suicide, would be if I become unable to stay at home and take care of myself. I have no children. I fear ending up in a nursing home being kept alive when I’m ready to die. I don’t live in an assisted suicide state and even those, you have to be terminal. You can’t just be tired, lived a good life and ready to go. So the trick would be knowing this ahead of time and figuring out how to proceed while you still can, since a living will would not be of help in this scenario.
Oh Mary! I so agree with you! I will choose when I no longer wish to live. What decision would be more personal than that? Thanks for coming by and commenting on my post.