"As our inner life grows ever more luminous, the chatter of the speed-and-greed world slowly fades, leaving us with greater peace, tranquility, quiet and contentment.” — Arthur Rosenfeld
Although Mike and I did consider ending it all before we met in lucky 2005 (see previous post), we both agree joining forces has been the BEST thing that has ever happened to either of us!
Together, through a great love and stubborn persistence, we have assisted each other in attaining our most treasured life goals, goals we would not have attained without each other’s support.
Mine was to become a writer. So far I’ve written three books! Mike’s was to build his own passive solar home with a spectacular view.
Mission Accomplished! And, BTW, the passive solar is keeping us toasty warm this fall! More often than not we have to open a window to cool down our home. So far, so good. We have only needed to use our supplemental heaters on the coldest and cloudest days.
The sunrises up here are GLORIOUS!
And all in all, I would say we are a good example of:
“Don’t give up in midlife when things feel hopeless!”
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If you can change your mind and change your priorities like I did, there are do-overs before it’s all over! That is the message of my books and blogs.
And, finally, the rat is dead! Mike found it in his car and killed it! He was so happy! We still have our new cat Charlie. He’s not so good with rats, but he’s great at finding bugs, and re-defines playfulness for us!
Rasta and Charlie are still not the best of friends, but we’re getting there…
midlife can be the best time of life once you get your head around it all. I’m so glad you found each other and re-defined yourselves and get to live happily ever after. What more could a 50+ woman ask for xx
midlife can be the best time of life once you get your head around it all. I’m so glad you found each other and re-defined yourselves and get to live happily ever after. What more could a 50+ woman ask for xx
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EXACTLY! And when I think back to eleven years ago when I felt I had NOTHING, I know I am VERY LUCKY! GRATITUDE for this day!
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